Well, he doesn't SLEEP here now. We had some naps together after he first stopped sleeping here, but that hasn't happened either in about a week or so.
He basically comes to home to hang out in another room and be alone most of the time. I think ONCE since he stopped sleeping here we watched a tv show together. He goes grocery shopping with me, but I kind of get the sense that it is to make sure I don't run wild and buy a bunch of thing I don't "need" or get cash back without him knowing about it. :P
It seems to me that it is more about having the comforts of home and solitude than anything else. Compared to the confines of a dingy, dirty, stale cigarette smelling (although rumor has it she quit her "occasional smoking" for him... everything he wears there smells like someone's grandma and febreeze, it is so gross) trailer house I bet our master bath and his own home office space seems pretty lush.
But by letting him come and go and ENJOY that space and comfort am I just prolonging how long it might take him otherwise to come to the realization that he doesn't REALLY want that other reality as bad as he thinks he does?
me-35 WAS-37 T-16 1/2 Son-14 (HF Aspergers) BD,ILYBINILWY,"I met my soulmate": Oct5,2013 "Letting go because I love him, holding on because I love him."
