That's terrific that you are going to start therapy on Monday. Good for you.
Remember that this is a marathon and not a sprint. I know you want to make things easier, but asking him to move out may not serve you in the long run.
I asked my H to move out, on impulse, as a reaction to finding out about OW. I just wanted him gone. Well, he's been gone 2 years now. I'm glad I haven't had to live with his insanity--at the same time, I'm still not sure I did the right thing.
Slow down. You need to make these decisions with a clear head.
You can always ask him for a time out. Maybe ask that he steer clear of you for a week? Give you a chance to detach and think?
Just a thought.
Hang in,
Heather
"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man
“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson
