I am sorry that it is falling on you to be the strong one to break the codependency. I know you can, yet that make it any easier.
If the day comes where she "see" the cycle and acknowledges it, that may be the day that you can celebrate a forward step.
I haven't lost hope in your sitch and know that you will thrive regardless of the outcome, you show that in your words my friend.
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
