Hey Amb, we all get where we get to in our own time. Though the ideas and seeds of these thoughts were there 2 years ago, it's taken 2 years to get them fairly solid in practice. I still question, doubt, etc.
I do not fully trust W at this time. That is reality.
That doesn't mean there will not come a time where I will have to give trust or benefit of the doubt, in order to get behavior to trust.
So let me toss this thought out there:
If I require total transparency, email accounts, passwords, etc., then I am willing to: -give all my email accounts, passwords, fb, chat histories, etc -access to my own bank and CC accounts (like we used to have) -my login, password and username to this place...DB -my alternate db fb account, chat histories, etc -access to my IC sessions... -and so forth
No.
H3LL NO!...I am not willing to do that ^^^^^, at this time.
So if I am to be consistent with my beliefs, then I cannot demand that of W, until I am ready to do the same.
Privacy, transparency is a two way street. Unless you are punishing. Is punishing going to get me to my goal, as I want it to be?
There is no "some animals are more equal than other animals" in my belief system, in who I want to be.
Just my 2.5 cents...
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm
