Good luck with getting the appointment. You do need to stay firm about not discussing it with him until you've had a chance to investigate your options. Try not to let him bully you into responding before you are ready.

Both 50
S14
M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)

ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012
H moved out - 27 Jun 2013
Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013
Closing the door and changing the locks