Yes I had a good relationship with my MIL before BD. I've not rung her for ages though and she rang me out of the blue. I thought that if I ring her then she might have a moan at me for not selling the house. I don't intend to talk to her about the sitch. The few times that I have, she's always taken his side though I do feel now that she's getting fed up of his grumbles. Mind reading I know! lol. I'm off to seek advice when I can get through to the advice centre. I've emailed them and asked for an appt next week. I need to get him off my back regarding this!
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
Good luck with getting the appointment. You do need to stay firm about not discussing it with him until you've had a chance to investigate your options. Try not to let him bully you into responding before you are ready.
Both 50 S14 M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)
ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012 H moved out - 27 Jun 2013 Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013 Closing the door and changing the locks
I thought I had a good relationship with the MIL, how wrong I was.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
H came round to drop my son off back home and arranged to have him over next week. After he arranged it, he went his merry way back to his. I'm pleased that he didn't stop to try and talk me round again He can't be that hard up though, my son mentioned that H said how when his mobile phone contract runs out on his iphone 4S then he's going to get a 5S. Anyway, thank goodness that he didn't stop to talk and I have God to thank for that as I've been praying hard
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
And once again its the MLC twins. My H constantly moans about being skint, then texts on Saturday about something he bought S13 for either Christmas or birthday - and that's on top of the over $250 he's already spent on presents.
Both 50 S14 M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)
ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012 H moved out - 27 Jun 2013 Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013 Closing the door and changing the locks
MLC twins strike again H has got some mail today, it doesn't look good either. three white envelopes with private and confidential on them. I've told him they're here, hope they're nothing serious or it'll be me getting it in the neck!
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
