Indeed a lot to think on. I would like to add that about 11 years ago I became very ill and was in hospital for weeks and on different meds, a couple of which had reactions to each other, which caused me to hallucinate for a few days. I need to state that those things I saw were REAL. They are very real memories for me and were a part of my reality and I can understand how an MLCer would also feel their reality is real. I went so far as to get into full blown arguments with my family that S14 was flushing the cat down a toilet, (as an example). It is only after the medications wore off was I able to come through the fog and understand it was not real BUT yet a part of my new memory......
This is a very small example, I know, but it allows me to understand that my H's reality is not that of ours but real none the less to HIM.
It's given me food for thought. Thank you all for sharing
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