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Originally Posted By: hotwheelsaust
Because if like me, the real reason finally comes out, you need to be able to handle it. Otherwise it will be like a second BD.

What makes you so sure that it is the REAL reason?


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I cannot be sure that is the real reason for the marriage break-up, none of us can. All I am saying is that for some of us who don't really see much of a typical script from WAS, we need to be able to handle seeing a bigger picture when it happens.


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I know what HWA is trying to say and I agree smile If you don't move on from why she left you in the first place, instead of just accepting it, then when you find out something else like an affair it will leave you devastated as much as the first BD. By accepting that it is over like HWA did and moving on, then HWA found the latest sitch easier to accept smile Does that make sense? lol


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Top of the class TTD180.


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Do I get a gold star teach smile


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Straight on the forehead........hard. I am a PE teacher remember.....dodgeball rules. It is my form of behaviour management....teacher joining in.


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lol HWA. That reminds me of the PE teacher in a new comedy we've recently had over here, called Big School. Though I doubt you're as bad! do a search for it on the internet, another Brit show for you lot to watch smile Where's 2old whilst we're hijacking his thread? lol.


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Seen the first episode... don't think I am that lecherous. 2old is chatting on FB.


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that's what I mean HWA, I said I didn't think you were that bad smile Tell 2old that we're hijacking his thread, lol


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Hehehe, I see you have hijacked my thread TTD...but its okay since it's you....lol....


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