Cadet, I was probably misinterpreting your comment. That's ok to know it wasn't what I wrote. Thanks for your comments. One thing that I am aiming for is: the best for me and my boys. The script generally is the same, and mine is no different. It is just nice to know I am in the same place as everyone else now, rather than this limbo of what the hell is going on. Knowing she is in an affair (whether with a woman or man) makes it easier to do my journey now.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
