2old. It is hard for some of us who the BD was so sudden and very unexpected. Continue on your journey, you are doing well. Because if like me, the real reason finally comes out, you need to be able to handle it. Otherwise it will be like a second BD.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.