You guys are so great. I really appreciate everything you have said. Even the things that are hard to hear, feel like the best advice and i thank you!.
I wanted to update from last night. W ended up not coming home at all. I didn't text, call or anything. I just went to sleep and she called around 8:30 in the morning and said she was coming home. I said, Ok. and left it at that. We took our daughter out to breakfast and i know that she had plans with a girl friend and her son to go out today, so I made some plans of my own (she didn't know this). However... when i asked what they were planning on doing (and i know i shouldnt have) she said that they were all going to go to OM's house and then go to the museum.
Now i don't know how you all feel about your children being around OM or OW, but this literally flipped a switch in my head. I have been relatively calm and soft spoken through this whole ordeal (RELATIVELY). But this... this set me off. "you are taking our daughter to the OM's house?" are you F'ing kidding me.".
I refused to speak to her rest of the meal.
An interesting thing happened. She Put her hand on me. Tried to console me, called me sweetheart, hunny, and baby. (she hasn't done anything like this in months)
I sat calmly, yet she know i was fuming. We left the restuarant i drove home, threw on some different clothes, gave my daughter a huge kiss and hug right in front of my W and then said, I'm going out.
She asked where, i said "Out". and then she asked if i would be here when she got back, and i said, "I don't Know." and then left.
Since then, she has called, left me a VM (i just wanted to let you know we were on the road, i'm sorry) , she never does this. and she has texted me twice and asked if i'm ok.
I have not responded yet. and i'm not sure if i'm going to. Is it better to keep silent? or do i say.. I'm fine. Or.. something like... Why do you care?
Anyways, I went to work out, Got my hair cut, went tanning, and i'm about to go shopping and get some new clothes. (Might check out a new tattoo too.)
