Update: I've just been having a convo with H via text. He said he didn't want to get to the point where we hate each other - him hating me for not selling and me hating him for going on about it. I sent him a text back saying hate me all you like, I'm not selling! I've not heard from him again Oh yes and the other thing, he's threatening to kill himself because he's fed up of the credit cards. I think it's just idle threats, but was thinking of asking his mum just to keep an eye on him. Talking of MIL, she rang me last night. She said she still wants to keep in touch as I am still her daughter in law and she wants to go on holiday with me when her H passes away. I know that sounds bad, but he is 97 years old and she's expecting it. She also said how we've not had a decent holiday for years and I said it's not that my mum hasn't given us any money, it's because all the money has been spent on either paying off his CC or doing up the house. MIL said that she knows what my H is like and she can understand this.
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
Oh yes and the other thing, he's threatening to kill himself because he's fed up of the credit cards. I think it's just idle threats, but was thinking of asking his mum just to keep an eye on him.