Originally Posted By: Heres hoping
During this i have been diagnosed with bipolar which all makes sense now.

Both my mother and daughter have this disease.

I have seen both ends of the spectrum concerning it.
My mother takes no responsibility for her illness has been on medication for 55 years, divorced my father and even continues to go off of her meds.

My daughter is totally the opposite, takes great care of her illness and her self and is a successful person in her career.

So that being said I can only hope you take after my daughter and take care of yourself moving forward.

I am sorry that your wife has reacted the way she has and I am going to say that is not excusing her behavior.

You can only try to control yourself and move forward from here.

The general theme is to Let her GO and detach and work on yourself.
Make yourself into a person that only a fool would leave.

I dont normally post here so I am hoping that others will come by and help you.

Please keep posting and know that you are not alone that there are lots of caring people here.


Me-70, D37,S36