Hanging on to the roller coaster

[tigerlily78]

Yeah, it is easier when you just decide not to care what they are doing and with who. It's not going to change anything on your end is it? Your knowing isn't going to make him not do it. They don't care, why should we. Plus, it helps to just remember what an ugly broken human being the OW has to be too to be a willing participant in breaking up someone else's marriage/family. The OW doesn't deserve space in our heads or any of our energy.

If they really do end up with OW for the long haul, then they are truly the ones who lose. We just have to keep being the lighthouse until they can pull their eyes away from shiny objects and see the power of REAL light, or we decide to turn the light out and move on.

Enjoy your chance to sleep in.