I've now got a thread over at the MLC website that 2old sent me too smile I've posted this today and I'm awaiting a reply. It's not that I don't get any good advice from you guys, it's just that sometimes I feel that I need advice from vets and they're not posting on my thread anymore.
Here is the message I sent:
My h rang me today to arrange to take our son swimming tomorrow. He started on again about selling the house and says he needs the money to pay off his credit cards that are in his name only. He says that if I don't then the creditors will come round and take the house off us. I know that this is not going to happen as the house is in joint names. He asked me again why I don't want a d and I said again that I'm not ready. I don't know whether or not to tell him that I am standing for my marriage and God hates d. I am running out of things to say to him. He went on about selling the house and how the credit cards keep on at him. I've already mentioned about going to the advice centre and he said they won't do anything.
I told him that I'm not going to discuss this any further until I get advice from the advice centre. He still went on, so I put the phone down on him.
He's coming round tomorrow to pick our son up and will probably hassle me again. Is there anything that I can say to him. I could threaten him by saying that I'll go to the police if he doesn't stop hassling me or apply for maintainance from him. I don't feel that threatening him will be the right way to go about things. Has anyone got any ideas?

H47 me48
T22 M21
S20 - Got high functioning autism
3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her
11/2000 H moves back home
2/4/13 H moves out
H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!