She does this kind of thing rather regularly - at least once a month and more often when she's feeling down.
She's dependent on me, like a drug. And she wants to get her fix and feel better for a while because nothing else seems to be working, but then she just retracts and beats herself up over being what she sees as weak.
She says she has to be okay without me, but she never actually wants to be without me...at least when times are tough (which is quite often). I don't see how I'm helping her reach her long term goals if she reaches out to me out of dependency and I feed that.
-PM
M:12y - BD:12/11 - D:6/13 - 4Ds
"The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy." -MLK Jr.
