Hi everyone. New poster. But I have been reading the forum for a few weeks and have read DR.
Together 10 yrs M9 With S4 and S8
M has been pretty stable until last year and I half when I suspected infidelity.
I noticed many changes in W. The makeup, perfumes, new hairdo, and the phone attached to her hip. Locking herself in the bathroom with phone, getting home from work later, and changes on how she behaves around me.
For a long time, i did many of the wrong things. I snooped, i followed her around the house and watched her every move. But the worst thing i believe i did was i coften confronted without solid evidence which she easily denied, and me ending up apologizing.
She used to say she will never do such a thing, and I am paranoid. She would cry and say how deeply hurt she was for my accusations. I apologize, but the thought of her infidelity was consuming me. This cycle went on for over a year.
Last oct., bd happened. I have found the forum and have read the insight on vets. I have been doing 180s, gal, going dim/dark, and nc.
This is just a quick intro on my sitch. Theres more that i would like to share. And hopefully, survive this whole mess with some guidance and wisdom from its members.Thanks
