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JFun51 #2405051 11/16/13 04:31 AM
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$40 pi$$ed away


perspective my friend, perspective.

That's being kinda judgmental, ASSuming, conclusion jumping and mindreading, don't you think?

You don't know all the story, right?

Just saying... (and yeah I know how you feel and I did it too).

What else do you have planned this weekend?


In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus

Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm

TSquared2 #2405054 11/16/13 04:46 AM
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S12's end of season football get together is tomorrow night. Fun with friends. Pizza buffet is always good. I think I'll have a good rest after the race in the morning to prepare for a big meal in the evening. May catch a nap while watching some college football. S12 and I have our eye on a couple of games tomorrow. Sat in the rain and watched HS football tonight. Gonna have fun tomorrow. That's the bottom line. BTW, when I tucked S10 into bed tonight, he kissed me on the cheek and whispered really sweetly, "I'm gonna beat you tomorrow." I love being a dad.


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JFun51 #2405055 11/16/13 04:48 AM
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There ya go ^^^^ !

Priorities.... wink


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Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm

JFun51 #2405057 11/16/13 04:52 AM
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No greater feeling, that. You know, J, I get how sometimes you are amazed at some of her actions. But you cant really know what her mindset is.

So, it is best to concentrate on the wonderful things in your life. And the most loving thing you can do for her is to not judge her, have compassion, take care of your children, and live your life.

It sounds like a wonderful day tomorrow. Savor every minute. It goes by so fast. My baby is going to be 23 in a few days. How I wish he was still 10 or 12.

Although it is a different kind of relationship between him and I. Still incredibly amazing. Especially when I get the kiss on the cheek. wink

You really are doing wonderfully. Dont stop. Continue to do the work. Keep growing. And keep your wife im your prayers.

You are a good guy, J.

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Thanks for the positive thoughts. Big day today. It marks a huge moment for JF version 2.0. I'll have to check in later to update all you awesome people.


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JFun51 #2405108 11/16/13 12:51 PM
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Is the 5k a benefit run ?

fundraiser ???

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Fundraiser for our local YMCA. All the schools in the county have kids go through a training program after school if they are going to run. Lots of kids and parents along with the really serious runners that always turn out. Pretty big deal in our little town.


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Bomb, ILYBINILWY-7/10/13
EA #1-confirmed 7/10/13, ongoing since 5/13
EA #2-9/13/13

Moved out and Legally Separated 6/14

"Success is a journey, not a destination."
JFun51 #2405118 11/16/13 02:11 PM
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Good....

Then you and your family donated $40 more to help the cause...

Perspective....

Just like T-square said....


Sounds like a good weekend ahead...

Stay the course

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Mach,

You always put in perspective. Thanks friend. We finished a little while ago. S12 ran a great time, earned 3rd in his age group. S10 ran well, too. I finished in under 30 minutes. That was my goal. Monumental moment for me. I love the new happy me. 1 year ago at this race I stood around and didn't participate. BD day may have turned my life upside down, but I wouldn't trade it for anything right now. Bursting with pride and fulfillment today. Trying not to let it overwhelm me in public.


Both 40
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S13
S11

Bomb, ILYBINILWY-7/10/13
EA #1-confirmed 7/10/13, ongoing since 5/13
EA #2-9/13/13

Moved out and Legally Separated 6/14

"Success is a journey, not a destination."
JFun51 #2405161 11/16/13 04:30 PM
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Originally Posted By: JFun51
Bursting with pride and fulfillment today. Trying not to let it overwhelm me in public.


Yea...careful with that one.... ^^^^

Somebody might think that you put your running shorts on backward...and they fit better : )

Just be you, and not the asshat that you booted to the curb a few months ago....

Live within the new you, the one that you have control over his thoughts and actions...




I am wondering though....

What differences would you say that you have now, that you couldn't see a year ago ???

Where IS that person now ? And how would you see keeping him at bay the next time a trigger is pushed ???

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