StH,

I hope you have made it clear to your H that while you are interested in reconciling, you are not going to take any further steps until he ends his A.

It doesn't seem to me that he should need 6 weeks to end it if he is ready to end it. If they were married, and he was leaving his family, I would understand waiting til after the holidays. With his mistress, to return to his wife? That shouldn't be the case.


M 46
H 44
D 12 S 8
M 9 T 11
BD 2/15/13
"Makes sense to stay together" 5/12/13
Agree we are 'healing' 7/13
Definitely Piecing 9/13