wife hardens heart-5

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XW have always been the one to make hasty decisions and never have given much thought to consequences.
She pulls D4 from her ballet class because she says D4 didn't like the instructor. She refuses to sent the kids to art class now that I have said I wanted to visit the school for myself.
She refuses to talk to our contractor because she didn't like the way she's being talked to after being very close to him at one point.
Last week, she took the kids to a holiday presumably with OM. Took a day off from school. Since it was pre-school, nothing serious. We always maintained that no holidays should effect their school days.
Zigs zags from her decisions.

Like this one. She's too hasty in deciding OM is for her. Granted he did slave it out for her.

Her family used to tell me that even if the sultan forbids, she will get her way.
That's why I have backed away when she threatens suicide. Can't tell she's for real or not.
She used to bite her arms until I relented when we were dating.

I'm exhausted over this weekly drama. Something always comes up every single week.

How shall proceed in DBing?