Thank you! I agree with everything suggested. There is a great sense of calm when I worked that our myself a month ago.
As a result, I can clearly see when and where my wife is testing me with her little white lies and moments of history rewriting. I never react negatively, as I can see them for what they are.
Suspected EA: Feb 2013 Bomb drop: Mid March 2013 Separation: Mid April 2013 (I fought for marriage) Filed for Divorce: April 2014 Accidental Exposure of affair: June 2014