Actually, in your case I would suggest you go for 50% custody, get your D's and then start dating. Seriously. I can almost guarantee it that she is not going to like having another woman playing with her D's as much as you do with another guy.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.