Wife says she wants to leave

[melissag]

Forgot to add - accuray was right that you need to take some power back. If you view yourself as a victim, so will she. You cannot sit there and act like a victim, feel sorry for yourself, and ask why me? (We all do it, but you have to stop yourself when you start going down that road.) You need to know that you are good, you are strong, and, once you read DB, you will have a PLAN. Having a plan means you are taking some control over yourself. You have something productive to do rather than passively just letting her walk all over you.