Where am I at pt 2

[Icecoldw]

Sandi, you have said that the lbs should not be a doormat, how's that? We can't ask questions, where they've been, can't defend ourselves when in an argument, we have to try not to act like the a is affecting us. We have to let them do what ever they want to do while still m. I know we have to set boundaries but how can we do that when they leave and we go dark? I'm still learning a lot, have my good days and bad, mostly bad this week. Could you help me start a plan of action or is that something I have to come up with.