I guess I believe in my heart that if her feelings are so confused that she has to move out, there will be very little that can genuinely bring them back to where they need to be.
So she's confused. She needs space and time. And your position is "If you need space and time, there's no hope"?
To me, there sounds like there's a lot of reason to be hopeful in your sitch, yet you seem to focus on the negatives. Is that more of the same for you? Perhaps a 180 is in order.
