I was a lousy husband as well- I was too busy with doing things, for us, that WE agreed upon, to make our lives better in the future.

Folks would always say "Marriage takes alot of work". I never understood what those people meant.I never "worked" at it....but boy did I work- so much that I never spent time with my family.

Listening to my employees talk about their sitch's - many work opposite shifts of their husbands...It so much easier to see the warning signs of what lies behind the upcoming hills of their lives.

FYI- I was referring to your wife as the victim- not you

you and I got BURNT!


ME 38 W 37
T18 M5
D3
BD 1/7/13
PA Conf 2/11/13- Ongoing
2nd simultaneous affair Confirmed 4/19/13
W gets APT and begins transition out 5/29/13
First mediation appt 12/19/13