Hello....sorry you find yourself here, but welcome.

No need to tell H about you changes like letting go of anger. Let your mouth stay silent and let your actions speak for you.

All WASs will be annoyed at the changes they see the LBS make AFTER they feel the marriage has fallen apart....so don't let that bother you. Keep working on yourself for yourself and I hope your H begins to see the grass isn't greener on the other side.

me: 30 H:30
tgthr:7 m:4
no kids
5 counseling sessions initiated by H as a LR: Oct 2012
long distance marriage b/c of work since Nov 2012
official BD: July 2013
nothing filed
1/1/14 I dropped the rope