You and I are in the same spot W wise ....I may be a bit ahead with GAL but you went to a support group- awesome job there!
All my friends want me to "hook up" too. I look really good now but I/We need to use this time to make sure our kids lives are grounded. My wife is running around- Im a DAD!
"hooking up" would distract. Ive watched my wife spend hrs texting with 100% focus and zero attention given to D3.85. My little girl was literally playing toys around her legs while my W was screwing around with her iphone.
Besides......nothing good happens when you start "looking" for someone. Go Dim. design your life 5 years from now and start working towards it- if she decides to join you ...AWESOME!. If not you will be living the life YOU created having survived a disaster
Im jealous of the support group
ME 38 W 37 T18 M5 D3 BD 1/7/13 PA Conf 2/11/13- Ongoing 2nd simultaneous affair Confirmed 4/19/13 W gets APT and begins transition out 5/29/13 First mediation appt 12/19/13
