I could have written that entire paragraph myself about being a bad listener, being jealous and feeling my decisions are the only correct ones. All of that describes me to a T. Right after my H moved out, I started doing a little navel gazing and I did find out things about myself that I needed to change. Those were some of those things.
You are so right in that it is our own journey too. If nothing else, these journeys give us the opportunity to actually look at ourselves and find ways to make our own lives better.
Me: 31 H: 32 Married 10 years, together 11 No kids H moved out to an apt 8-3-13
Experience: That most brutal of teachers. But you learn, my God, do you learn. ~C.S. Lewis
