I had an Affair and Wife now wants Divorce

[MrBond]

First of all, stop playing the martyr. You had the A and these are the consequences.

I'm not the one married to you. You don't have to worry about my replies. But if you can't think of a single good point as to why your W would want to stay with you, then WHY even bother trying to get her back?

If you don't know what good points you have to work and expand on, then you can't DB correctly.

So stop being the martyr and write down what good points you have from your POV.