J, I'm sorry to say I've been where you are. I'm happy to say you're a faster learner than I.
People are naturally attracted to things that shine - we're like ravens in that regard I guess They are attracted both to the light because it's attractive and to the light so they can throw rocks. Either way, they are attracted.
I mention this because you want to be aware. With what you are going through, there will be... temptations, just like she was tempted. People can sense what you're about and they'll notice the sadness and the peace and the rest of it. Some will take advantage of that. It's just how things are.
I highly suggest you remain on your guard for it and stay away from it. Remember this is about you and your life and how you live it. Staying away from those temptations is about you and your integrity and your commitments.
Stay well!
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
They are attracted both to the light because it's attractive and to the light so they can throw rocks. Either way, they are attracted. 
