It was just a toy that my cat likes to play with, it was an old toy that my H had found on the floor. Maybe i'm reading too much into this as I know he's being ocd about cleaning and maybe he's trying to berate the cat now for leaving her toys on the floor, lol.
I went to the women's support but they said as I'm already having counselling there's nothing really they can do. They feel that it's not threatening enough for them to get involved and that I'm doing ok smile
I won't be bringing up any money issues, I agree about it being his problem smile
Yes my GALing is going well smile I did a big shop today, someone commented on what a large family I've got, lol. I just said that it's so I don't have to keep going out during the week. I hope I get some money off mum soon that she promised me, I'm spending it before I get it, lol.


H47 me48
T22 M21
S20 - Got high functioning autism
3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her
11/2000 H moves back home
2/4/13 H moves out
H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!