I can understand becoming defensive when someone points out something that I don’t like about myself, I have and still fight with it. My suggestion would be after reading or hearing something that strikes you that way, to take a moment and breathe and then re-read or listen to what was said as if they were talking about someone else, take the personal out of it. Then you have a better chance of seeing the real message. LTH has amazing insight and I try to listen to everything she says alone with several others, no one is dead on right or has all the answers, but they care and can see a lot. This is at least what I figured out for myself.
Food for thought… Would you rather have your W be in an A with someone she really cared about emotionally? Think about it
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
