Was it a new toy? Is that why you are so sure your H put it there? If yes, then I agree with HWA about it being a baby step on his part.

Just remember not to bring up that money issue. It's his problem, let him deal with it and definitely let him be the one to bring it up.

Sounds like your GALing is still going well. Keep it up smile.

Both 50
S14
M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)

ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012
H moved out - 27 Jun 2013
Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013
Closing the door and changing the locks