Originally Posted By: hotwheelsaust
NQ, I agree about the looking hot or showing a more positive glow. In the last week I have had quite a few people say the same to me. I can only thing it is to do with the more upbeat aura of me. I haven't gained any more weight, nor lost since BD. So it's not that I have become more bulkier/muscular, I haven't changed my attitudes around work. So it must be my internal self that has changed and this is showing me as being better.
Or maybe it is just my good looks and charm, when they realise I am getting closer to being single.

Maybe we are just getting more comfortable in our sitches. Whatever the reason, aren't the compliments great for boosting self-confidence and PMA smile


Both 50
S14
M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)

ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012
H moved out - 27 Jun 2013
Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013
Closing the door and changing the locks