I am working through my goals using DR. I am alone this weekend- seems like he will visit every second weekend..I am planning on being busier and not just waiting around but it still is lonely.
H concern is that he does not trust me or believe in my any more. He seems to remember those social occassions where guests have talked about an activity and I have made a positive comment but he knows it is not something I would really like.Also bigger issues where things did not work out the way he hoped- moving to another country and then moving back here..while he had liked living away.
so the social converstaion thing I can change but building trust.. I don't actively lie to him, I have never had an affair, I have not done things behind his back, I don't have secret passwords So I kow it is a long road and a slow process but looking at my goals I am not sure how to put that as an action...
as we do not live together it is hard to do in small daily things which I could imagine if he was here.
