We have a counseling session together tomorrow morning. Right now the counselor's focus is making sure we can co parent amicably. I have no doubt we can because we've already been through that scenario for 14 months during our last separation. If we continue seeing our counselor what are some do's and dont's?

I feel after every session it's a step back. My W gets super emotional and withdraws from me. I was a wreck last time as well. My focus tomorrow is to keep calm. I think I'm going to back off on getting the counselor to make my W see that she needs to look in the mirror.

Ps. Now that I'm off moderation, why no responses? Anyway, writing my thoughts out helps regardless.

Me-35 Com law-28
S-3
T-6 yrs w/14 mnth bu
1st bu- 2/2012
Rec-4/2013
2nd bu-10/2013
IC-2 yrs(anger issues)
MC- 5 mnths-fail
OM~1/1/14 OM dumped 6/4/14
New OM ~10/4/14