My high school boyfriend died a few days ago. His wife called me in the middle of the night, looking for his friends phone number. This was his 3rd wife, he has been having a rough past couple years. (Who hasn't?)
I told my friend and she flippantly texted me that she wasn't surprised considering what I told her about him. Wow. I didn't answer the text.
I'm pretty sure my old friend committed suicide. He had made many previous attempts. Still sad, when people get into drugs they can get clean and sober, but they can't always recover.
Even my X told me he was sorry to hear that when I told him.
The guy I'm dating picked me up at the airport from a visit to my older son in Texas. We went over to Ala Moana and went out on SUP boards. His board is harder than mine! I ran out of energy, I had a flu bug while I was in Texas. But it was nice to spend time on the water after that long flight.
Still not sure where he and I are going. He is very underemployed. And I am not a princess, but have a minimum standard of living. Anyway, just going with the flow. He thinks I'm beautiful. And I think he is adorable. I met him when I was selling an ocean kayak online. Sparks flew. He is 8 years younger than me. And he is about an inch taller, which on this island is about as good as it gets.
Me 57 XH 58 Sons age 32 & 27 M:32 D final 9/12 Bought 10 Acres and Living the Dream!