Sorry for the third post, but another thing I've been trying to figure out is text messages. H will text me, and I will respond (not always right away but within hours), but then he won't text me back. I reply because it feels rude to me to not reply, but I'm sort of getting the impression that replying is hurting rather than helping the situation. Is this mind reading? His texts are about things like "Do you remember me telling you about how I was optimistic about my basketball team? They haven't won yet this season!" In DBing and LRT, considering we have no kids, I know I'm supposed to go "dark". But if he contacts me, shouldn't I polite respond? Maybe the key is just that I shouldn't take it personally. Respond politely, but if he doesn't reply it doesn't really matter. Can a "vet" shed some light on this for me?
M: 26 H: 30 no kids M: 4 T: 6
BD / I moved out of in-laws: 10/9/13 Changes mind from divorce to MC (never went): 10/15 Conflicted/ambivalent but more positive: 10/26 Doesn't know what he wants: 11/7
