Wow, just looking at your signature it seems like we have pretty similar timelines and stories.
I WISH OW would dump my husband. I'm still waiting for him to do it. He says he's going to by the end of the year. He told me yesterday he's "very confident" in his ability to do it, whatever that means. I'm not sure why he needs so much time. Would anyone with more experience like to make a guess there? It seems to me like he just wants permission to play a little longer. But, I've come this far. I really don't want to let another month or two keep me from saving my marriage, you know?
I have an orientation at the hospital next week, I'm going to start volunteer work to take my mind off being single through the holiday season.