Well I have been accused of wanting to pay down debt more than wanting children. I can see the the light at the end of the tunnel as far as that goes if we stay M. I also realized that being debt free was not everything it is cracked up to be if you sacrificed other areas of happiness to get there. About 3 years ago I realized that no matter what, money issues could be worked out if we had a baby. This along with a tragic event caused me to see that we needed to start our family then. Problem is I didnt know how to bring it up to my W. She had been wanting children for about 7 years and I kept saying we couldnt afford it right now. Extremely stupid of me I know.
We both knew that each other wanted kids we just never discuss it the way a married couple should.Because of a lack of communication skills we just swept under the rug and it obviously built up a lot resentment in my W. I cant blame her but I just wish that three years ago I would have manned up and asked to have a baby back then instead of waiting till 2 months before the S to ask.
Me 47/W 34 T 16 M 13 No kids BD 6/2013 W asked that I move out 6/2013 I moved back and W is upset with this 12/2013 separate beds not much talking Served D Complaint 5/2014 W moved out 9/27/2014
