TTD180; I am not venting, far from it. I just wanted to put the words done on the forum. More thoughts rather than venting. Seriously I am not angry at all.
BrightFuture: I know and accept there is nothing that is my fault since BD, but I still accept fault for what has led my W to BD. Both our faults. I do find the "batting for the other side very, very strange". Never has she shown any inkling of interest that way. If anything a few times the W seems to attract those types and she has always told the straight away, no way. I can only think, as I said before, that this person gave her the love she must have been craving, in her own way.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
