Aiming for the PMA of a glow worm....

[TryingToDo180]

lol I never saw that film, but pods reminds me of the film aliens

[MileHigh]

I think there are about 75 versions of the Body Snatchers. Well, at least 4 anyway.

[TryingToDo180]

Well I must've seen one of those ones then, I just can't rewmember it, lol.

[MileHigh]

Maybe you're an alien pod creature! Aaaahhhhhh!

[MileHigh]

Did that sound mean? I just meant, that's why you don't remember. You can smack me with the 2x4 if you want.

[TryingToDo180]

no need to smack you with a 2x4 MH I was thinking about H being the alien pod, not me lol.

[Not Quitting]

It was the nice version of H that turned up last night . He arrived early, just after dinner as scheduled, for a change. He also said he had the Costco card with him if I still needed to go, so the three of us went shopping. On the way back H suggested we stop off for a drink - and he paid. He was chatty and friendly all evening, no complaints about being broke, no nasty comments about my dad and no references or conversations about OW. Complete opposite to the night before.

He did try very briefly to talk S13 out of going to the Santa Claus parade on Sunday, but S13 stood his ground and wouldn't change his mind. I'd had a talk with him a few days ago explaining that any and all contact with both his dad and OW are completely his decision and that neither his dad or I can try to force our opinion about it on him. He did seem concerned about standing up to his dad, but I told him that in this case it was perfectly fine, that there are times when it would be wrong (ie, disciplinary talks) but other times when he would be expected to have a decision and to take a stand.

And S13 did tell H that he was welcome to come with his if he wanted. H just said "thanks, but no thanks". I won't be telling S13 that his dad won't do anything he sees as family time, unless of course it's his suggestion (like the drink last night, or when he has suggested brunch on a Sunday).

[Not Quitting]

I sent you a message earlier on FB NQ, but I'll repeat it on here. It sounds like the MLC twins or should that be triplets are back on track or not as the case may be, lol.
I also look at my H and think what did I see in him? Is this the man I actually married? I hope that one day I'll learn to love him again, but for now - pfffft

I saw the email about the message - can't log onto FB at work, even on my phone unless I go to 3G and use my data time - and H was hanging around again last night so didn't get onto the computer until this morning. Once my cell phone is split from H's plan, I won't be so worried about what data time I'm using - won't have to answer to H.

[Not Quitting]

NQ, I agree about the looking hot or showing a more positive glow. In the last week I have had quite a few people say the same to me. I can only thing it is to do with the more upbeat aura of me. I haven't gained any more weight, nor lost since BD. So it's not that I have become more bulkier/muscular, I haven't changed my attitudes around work. So it must be my internal self that has changed and this is showing me as being better.
Or maybe it is just my good looks and charm, when they realise I am getting closer to being single.

Maybe we are just getting more comfortable in our sitches. Whatever the reason, aren't the compliments great for boosting self-confidence and PMA

[TryingToDo180]

I agree Compliments are always good for our PMA When I had my lip waxed and eyebrows shaped, I suddenly felt a foot taller It's those little things that make all the difference.