NQ, I agree about the looking hot or showing a more positive glow. In the last week I have had quite a few people say the same to me. I can only thing it is to do with the more upbeat aura of me. I haven't gained any more weight, nor lost since BD. So it's not that I have become more bulkier/muscular, I haven't changed my attitudes around work. So it must be my internal self that has changed and this is showing me as being better.
Or maybe it is just my good looks and charm, when they realise I am getting closer to being single.


ME:51 W:46
M:25
S:22, S:20
Divorced 16/9/15
BD 10/12
W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12.
Dark since 6/13
I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.