Thanks everyone. No OT I have no agenda. I was the one who broke up with her but it ended cordially, if one can call it that. We are still FB friends and have connected twice in the past three months, once initiated by me and once by her. In our R she was very dependent on me and it became a real issue which never seemed to get resolved. So my thoughts are that if she is reaching out to others within her community then that's great. She has many friends and the Filipino community is very supportive of each other. I don't want to stick my nose in and divert that good stuff. But I am concerned and do care very much for her (still love her really!)but have no thoughts of re-igniting anything. I just want to be a good person and support someone I care about...even just a little bit.
