I had an Affair and Wife now wants Divorce

[MrBond]

"W is also a person who doesn't deal with emotional issues well."

And I'm sure your A helped her alot with her self-esteem.

"I'm just trying to establish why I wish she would continue with her IC."

Again, you cheated on a woman with insecurity and self-esteem issues. You don't get to decide what she needs any more.

"Whether it's me or a future relationship with someone else, IC can help her deal with the issues inside her...and deal with the hurt I have caused her."

Part of this is your own guilt talking. You didn't care for her before so you shouldn't care about her now.

"I guess I'm not sure how to be transparent...what more can I do?"

I'm not sure why you keep focusing on transparency. She doesn't care either way any more. She's done with you for now.

"With virtually no contact and no communication, how do I show that?"

Again, transparency has nothing to do with it. It has to deal with TRUST. That involves more than transparency.

"Honestly, if I were her, I would not want anything to do with me."

That's not what I asked. WHAT REASON would she want to stay with you? Think hard.