Seperation VS Divorce

[peaceSJ]

Now H claimed the below for the reasons why he wants D.

"In our marriage, you are the one that lacks passion, that frustrated me. (admit it or not, that's how i felt). and if I complained this to you before, you'd most likely brush if off like, did you read too much novel? A person does not become passionate after being criticized of being non-passionate. they are who they are. maybe you are passionate but held back, maybe you are not. maybe you didn't think that your husband need it so you don't show it. but where is your own needs? whatever personality you have, we are just two very different type of person. you seem to think of everything as your possessions, and only react on it when you see the danger of losing it. so you love (or show your love) more now than before, to me and to our kids."

I think the main differences of us are that we have different hobbies. He likes to travel, adventure, and photograph much more than me. Actually all our friends think H and I are very same type of person. They always teased us that we fit each other so much like one person.

But I don't know how to response to him. He defends everything what I said now.

Any inputs here? Thank you.