Thanks for your post! I will drop the rope! It has taken me a while to detach from him but I feel like I'm just about there. People have told me to contact a lawyer just to see what my rights are. I've been thinking more about doing that.

I find that my weeks are chock full as well! It's nice to keep busy and that way we keep our mind off things at least for a little while. I have gone from being in a pit of depression - just sitting on my couch, not moving the whole entire day. To being about to go out and actually have a little bit of fun without H there.

I'll keep checking on you, too!

Me: 31 H: 32
Married 10 years, together 11
No kids
H moved out to an apt 8-3-13

Experience: That most brutal of teachers. But you learn, my God, do you learn. ~C.S. Lewis