I had an Affair and Wife now wants Divorce

[MrBond]

I'm going to be brutally honest here, so please keep that in mind.

"I wish W had continued with her individual counseling,"

Why? She wasn't the one with the problem.

"But it worries me she will not deal with the situation effectively, even if she files for divorce."

Why does it worry you? You didn't care about it when you were having your A. These are the consequences.

"I have been as open as I can be with her."

You said that before and then you betrayed her again.

"She does not call me at all...we see each other at work for only about 5 minutes, so conversation is limited. Outside of work, I do go over to the house for about an hour or 2 on the weekend to see the cats. W and I have conversation, but it is usually about the cats or small menial items."

Understandable.

"Have sincerely asked for forgiveness several times over the past 3 months since she asked me to move out. No response each time."

You did that the last time and you cheated on her again. Fool me once...

"I left my computer at the house when I moved out...she has the passwords for emails, etc."

This proves nothing. She knows you could always have a hidden email that she doesn't know about.

"I'm not sure what more I can do while living apart to be transparent. She never asks about OW or about what I am doing, and hasn't since the end of August."

Because she doesn't care. You've made her numb. She dropped her defenses the first time and opened up to you to trust you. You broke that trust again.

So being honest here, putting herself in your shoes, what reason does she have to go out with you? If you were her, why would she want to be with you? Write it down here.