Afraid I have waited too long

[nit84]

I want to avoid L's if at all possible. I don't want it to seem like an ultimatum. I have spoken with a L. It was back at the beginning of Sept. and they seemed to think all was ok with a plan to move back. I felt dirty after speaking with them because I never wanted it to go this far and they understand I don't want to file. They said just to play it cool and hopefully things shake out the correct way.